In Oakland, it was a teacher who brought Belle’s artistic talents to her parent’s attention. She was soon taken out of high school and began attending the School of Design in San Francisco. Shortly thereafter, her mother began attending classes there as well (taught by Virgil Williams).
Preparing Belle for a suitable marriage and potentially a future as an artist, soon became a ready excuse for Fanny to leave Samuel under the pretext of a trip to study art in Europe. In Paris, Belle began attending classes at the Académie Julian. After her youngest brother’s death, the family moved to Grez-sur-Loing where Belle fell in love with a young Irish artist, Frank O’Meara, however he was not ready to settle down.
In 1878, the family returned to Oakland. Soon after they left Samuel again and moved to Monterey. There, Belle fell in love with another young artist, Joseph Dwight Strong, the son of missionary parents and who had been raised in Hawaii. Despite her daughter’s infatuation, Fanny was against the match believing it would ultimately make her daughter unhappy.
Not heeding her mother’s advice, Belle secretly received permission to marry Joe from her father in the fall of 1879. One year later their son, Joseph Austin Strong, was born.